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BDSM Domina and sex-witch seeking submissives

TS (39) looking for Male Oakland, California, United States

I identify as a Hijra; gender-neutral, feminine ascendant. I prefer female pronouns. I am solidly pansexual: I am attracted to STRONG spiritual power or profoundly loving and gentle energy. I am attracted most especially to energy that reads as gender neutral or more masculine of center. The shell is irrelevant to me. I am a Dominant sex-witch, trained according to old guard protocols. Manners are very important gentlemen. I do play in the submissive role from time to time, but it takes MONTHS to engender that kind of trust from me.

That said, it should also be understood that I have no desire to be an anal top except via toys, my hands, and my tongue. It should also be understood that I refuse to be anally receptive with anyone whom has not earned the privilege. You earn that privilege by showing me that I am more than a play partner to you, that I am a valued friend and an important part of your life.

In more casual connections, I appreciate having my penis fellated (by those with adequate skill to do so) and I enjoy providing the service. Sometimes, I enjoy nothing more than having a man bound at my mercy, and explore every inch of him with my tongue. I usually prefer to give head rather than recieve it. Most of the time, it feels like sticking my penis in a Cusinart. I PREFER to recieve pleasure of my phallus via use of my own or my partner's hands and I ADORE recieving anallingus.

I am ethically polyamorous, and I prefer my relationships to be long term. I am also a devout childe of the Twin Lions Yeshueh a Messiah and Hetheret-Sahu. My faith touches every aspect of my life, including my sex-life. I am a vestal vessel (also known as hijra, temple prostitute, sex witch, etc.). I feed energetically from sending my supplicants flying on the dance between pleasure and erotic pain: I also employ these techniques to heal psychic wounds in those worthy of such ministrations.

Please note: about once or twice a month, I head up to Santa Rosa to visit friends. If you are in the Santa Rosa area, I can be seduced into making special trips to get to know local man flesh.

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Appearance

EthnicityOther
BuildBBW/BHM
Height165 cm
Eye ColorBrown
Hair ColorDark blonde
Hair LengthShort
Facial HairNone
Best featureLegs
Body ArtBranded, Inked all over, Pierced... but only ear(s)
Health ConditionDiabetes
My AttractivenessVery attractive

Situation

Relationship StatusLiving together
Has childrenNo children
Wants kidsNot sure
Housing SituationFriends come over often
Wants to RelocateNo
Has a carNo

Education & Employment

EducationUniversity Bachelors
SpecialtyArt / Music / Literature
Employment StatusSelf-employed

Looking For

I prefer:Intelligence, Humor, Great skills, Empathy, Sensitivity, Boldness, Spontaneity, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfulness
My perfect matchWanna play? Get to know me and show me I'm more to you than a fetish object. Don't want to put in the effort to get to know me and show me I'm a valued part of your life? I'll make you regret the day your mother ever met your father, and then I'll toss you out with the rest of the garbage. I'm looking for a well trained submissive man with a backbone. I want men who will stand up to me when the need arises, offer honest, loving advice when solicited, and walk hand in hand with me by the light of day. I prefer men with minimal limits, who like to put on a good show. I expect to recieve skilled and devoted personal service, or don't waste my time.
Our first dateOn the first date, you will bring me a single flower accented with baby's breath and ferns: I prefer cala lilies, irises, or roses. We will meet to get to know each other at a fun, independent coffee house (in SF, I prefer Wicked Grounds). You will extend your gift to me, and, if I like your energy, I will extend my hand. You may kiss my hand and bow your head, addressing me at all times as MiLady or Lady Nef'ra. This is where we will get to know each other as friends first and establish whether or not a mutual friendship is possible. I will expect highly chivalrous manners as evidence of whether or not you will be willing to follow commands.

Understand this: you will not anally penetrate me until I deem you worthy of such an honor and meet the conditions I have set for that right, nor will you recieve the reward of fellatio until you have earned it. Disrespect those terms, or attempt to pressure me to caving to your desires for such, and you will DEARLY regret it.